Love this book. Just finished it and it's awesome. Gary is such a honest, tell-all type of author and let's just be honest, we all WANT the truth and benefit from the truth more than anything else. If it's sugar coated... where is the encouragement for growth or to "fall forward" as Gary talks about. Highly recommend it for anyone beginning a marriage to being 30 years in. It's never too late to learn these lessons and change our outlook on our marriage. It's not all about us, or all about me.